What is Death? More Ease in this Transformative Process Comes with Understanding what Death is.

What is death?  Death is merely the ending of an old and beginning of a new.  This can be in anything in our lives.  Relationships, careers, material things too!  There is grief with any kind of loss, especially if it is sudden.

When we lose a loved one death is simply a transformation from the physical into the vastness of energy that we be as infinite beings.  It is always hard to say goodbye to those we love, and truly there is never a good time to say good bye!

We humans (earthlings) want to keep things the same forever or at least as long as we can, we resist change.  What we must remember is that each of us as an individual soul has a journey that is right for us.  Our loved ones who have passed are also choosing for their growth as an infinite being.  The time they had here has come to a close.  They have so much more to accomplish on the other side.  We get so caught up in the means that they chose to pass.  Be it an accident, illness, or suicide.  Ultimately it was their decision, their choice to leave the physical world to enter that of the spiritual.

The pain we have from loss is caused by our unwillingness to release and let go of what was.  The grief is the pain of knowing that things are changed forever.  If you are willing to work with it, the pain is less intense.  Especially if you are willing to do emotional release work and alternative healing therapies.  Learn tools that you can use on your own when emotions surface, as they will.  Especially when memories are triggered or events come along throughout the year.

Grief is a human emotion and something that we all go through at some point in our lives.  Like an injury to the body there will be pain.  In the beginning it will be most painful.  How we choose to deal with it is what can either help or hinder the emotional healing process.  There are so many good tools out there for emotional release and therapies for healing.  The choice too is yours.  Many are not open to trying these therapies because their unwillingness or call it stubbornness, prevents them from seeing another way.  There are always choices, hang on to what was and stay the same, or allow yourself to accept it, and see the gifts in the process of change, transformation and growth.

I have seen many souls who have passed, so that they can help their families connect more with their spiritual journey.  Still many are not open to it and fear that their belief system is going to be challenged and worse yet be shattered.  Maybe they fear being wrong, or that they might have to change in some way.  There is no right or wrong, there is simply we know what we know at the time and when we know more we can make better choices.  So why do people resist so much?  This is the big question.  What are people so afraid of?  They don't want to see that there is a whole other world out there waiting to open up.  You see it isn't only those in spirit who have had a change or transformation, those who are left here are also meant to go through change and transformation as well.

Life after losing a loved one, isn't about going through the motions of daily life trying to get by.  It is about truly learning how to let go.  To honour those who have passed and know that they are with us always and that they haven't really left they simply transformed.  You can still feel them, and sense them in a different way.  They do try to help us understand but we are too stubborn to have it any other way.  This only serves to block us from feeling their loving presence all around us.

Our purpose here in the death process when we lose a loved one, is healing and letting go of grief, our purpose is to let them go as they continue their journey as an infinite being.  Our new objective is to accept our new way of life no longer having them with us in the physical, but with us in spirit now on a higher realm and different reality.

No one said it is easy, but you must be willing to work through the process of letting go and continuing on your journey too.  Allow the change to move through you.  Allow the change to make you better than you were before.  Find your new normal as you continue to let your light shine.  Knowing you are never alone, they are with you always just in a different way.

How Powerful are You?

Do you forget that when something is not working for you in your life that you are the one who can change it?  Everything is energy, so simply by looking at a situation differently you can change it!  Do you know that by judging things in your life you could be holding it back from being something better, or something different?

What is it today that is frustrating you or that you wish you could change?  What isn't working right now for you?  Did you stop to consider that asking questions rather than coming to conclusions can change the whole outcome?  

Try asking some questions today!  What is right about this that I am not seeing or getting?  What would it take for this to turn out better than my wildest dreams?  How does it get any better than this?  Asking questions takes us out of judgment and into allowance.

Everything is energy and has a flow to it, if we are in allowance.  The trouble is we try to control everything because we want to know that we are going to be ok, and we can't see or predict what will happen in the future, so we stop or block things with our thoughts and judgements around it.  We do this because we think that we have control then.  And guess what?  We do!  But we are limiting our possibilities by being this way! What if you just let things go and trusted that the Universe has your back?  Ask some questions and simply make choices based on what comes along in your day.  Go ahead, there is no such thing as a mistake only choices.  Feel the energy.  What feels light is right, if it feels heavy choose something else!

It is that simple! 

Empower Your Life! - How to change what isn't working for you!

Hello beautiful friends!  What I know today is that sometimes we can have a tendency to get stuck in a rut!  So I would like to offer you some tools for making your life easier and more joyful!  

What is happening for you today that you wish could change? You MUST remember that you are more powerful than you realize, if something isn't working in your life you have the power to change it and make it different. All it takes is a change in how you think about it. If you are judging it as right/wrong, good/bad you are holding the energy of it and keeping it "stuck". What if you simply asked some questions? 1)What would it take to change this? 2) How does it get any better than this? 3) What is right about this that I am not getting or seeing?

Go ahead and try it, right now! It doesn't cost you a thing, it empowers you and puts you in the drivers seat of your life! After you ask the questions simply let it all go and see what shows up for you! What magic can you create today and what else is possible? Have fun!

What Would it take to Find Your Purpose?

What I know today is that there are a lot of people who are going through the daily grind of life and feeling unfulfilled right now.  Thinking is this all there is?  Is this what life is about?

I would like to ask you this simple question.  What would it take to find your purpose?  What I love about this universe is that when you go into question, possibilities open up for you.  So what is it that you would like to change in your life?  Have you thought to ask questions around it?  These questions are not for you to answer, but instead when you ask them, they open up the energy of the situation rather than the energy being contained as you judge it.  When you judge something you hold the energy there with your judgement.  This is what is happening when you feel stuck!  You are making a judgement about the situation and keeping it there!

So what would it take for something different to show up for you?  Ask questions and start with What would it take__(fill in the blank)_____________?

Getting back to finding your purpose, what is it that you are good at?  What are your strengths? What do you love to do?  Because your purpose is really more simple than you realize!  Your purpose is a match to what you love doing and to what is fun and easy for you to do!  You see we complicate life as human beings, that is what keeps us stuck!  We get caught up in the illusion of life that it has to be hard and that we have to struggle.  What if that isn't what life is supposed to be?  What if we have been living a lie?  What if all of this has been in place to control us and disempower us?

So go ahead start asking yourself the questions!  What am I good at?  What are my strengths?  What do I love to do?

See what shows up for you!

Have an awesome day!

xo

What is your Purpose? It is easier than you think!

What I know Today is that it makes me so happy to see people doing something that they love to do!  Have you ever noticed someone doing something that they love, and how good they are at it?  There is an energy around seeing someone do something that they love.  It becomes an extension of who they are.  How does it make you feel when someone who loves what they do shares their knowledge with you?  It could be as simple as someone in retail helping you with a purchase or serving you in a restaurant.  Maybe it is seeing someone sing who is so connected with the song that it is magical and gives you goosebumps!  It is an awesome feeling.

I think everyone should have a connection with something that they love to do.  I also believe that your purpose in this world is exactly that, finding what you love to do and doing it.  Without worrying about what anyone else thinks, or how much money it will make you.  Just be who you are and do the thing(s) that you love to do.  The rest will take care of itself.  We are creative beings and when we are creating, we are in the power of who we are as a being.  When we aren't creating we are  stagnant, we become stuck, maybe even depressed.

I see us all like a piece of the puzzle in a much bigger picture.  When you become one with your purpose and what you love to do, your piece moves into place completing more of the bigger picture.  Imagine each and every one of us in the world doing what we love.  The harmony and peace that would come from it?  The picture complete because each piece is in its place radiant and alive, full of light and beauty.  Right now the world looks to me like a partially complete puzzle, with some pieces fit beautifully together while the rest are the remaining pieces jumbled up in the box not yet sure where they belong.  Some pieces are stuck together in the wrong place, others are upside down and dull.  Some of the pieces  are more colourful than others but each plays an important and unique role in completing the picture.

I think we tend to make finding our purpose difficult and for many it feels impossible.  It really is simple.  If you love to garden, then maybe that is your purpose, and maybe because you have followed that love of gardening, you then become an expert gardener, which now allows you to teach others who do not have a green thumb!  Purpose to me is simply doing what you love to do.  And not being stuck in what that looks like but allowing it to continually evolve as life goes along.

How easy is that?  So what do you love to do?

Do you know that by doing what you love to do, you will inspire others to do the same?  Be the example and when they see you did it they will see it is possible and then the ripple goes out!

Once everyone discovers what they love to do, the picture becomes complete.  All the pieces are in place.  It is total beauty, joy and harmony because we are all working together with our unique gifts and talents with the essence of who we shining bright.  How does it get better than that?

Feeling Stuck? How to Create Change!

What I know Today is that many people are feeling stuck in their lives.  Some people really have no idea that they can create change and make their life better.  As people awaken to a higher consciousness they will realize that we are not our problems or our beliefs.  We are an infinite being who is capable of much more than we can imagine.  These problems or beliefs are conditions of the human experience we call life.  With the awakening that is taking place that is all about to change.  Let me show you how!

The way you react to any situation will either bring you Joy or Pain.  We always have choices available to us at any given moment.  Since studying and teaching Access Consciousness I have discovered that living in question helps to keep the doors of possibility opening for me.  Even when I feel stuck and discouraged asking myself a simple question:  What else is possible?  When I do this I let it go, or if I am really resistant or in a serious situation and not sure how to get unstuck, I will keep saying it.  What happens is I find a different possibility.  Things I never even dreamed of happening to get me unstuck will show up!  How does it get better than that?

I have loved Law of Attraction ever since reading "The Secret."  I know many people thought this was just about "positive" thinking and many put it down.  My point of view is just that it was misunderstood.  It is much more than that, but wasn't explained well.

Understanding that everything is energy has been the greatest gift to me.  It has not only helped me to better understand how to live my life with more ease, but also helped me to understand a bigger picture that life isn't always what it seems.  That more things are possible than many can even imagine and that the way you live your life is a choice.  Want to create change?  Simply asking questions is the way to do it.

So what does a problem look like in terms of energy?  It is basically an energy block.  When energy is blocked it remains stagnant, which means that the problem will remain until the mind shifts to looking for a solution or a different way of thinking.  What I love about Access is it gets the energy moving again, thus allowing possibilities and potential to come flooding in!

Your mind is what controls/allows your experience and when people start to realize this and work with it to create more of what they are wanting for their life experience, there will be amazing shifts here on this earth!

Optimal Health! Are you willing to try something different?

What I know Today is that I am very interested in Alternative Health and Healing.  My experience though where I live is that people seem super conservative around trying things that don't require surgery or drugs for their health issues.  In fact you mention any other type of healing therapy and they look like they want to run the other way!

For me it seems that natural is the way to go if at all possible.  For example having my Gallbladder removed.  It seems that I was born with that organ for a purpose, and yet it suddenly gives me problems due to stones that have formed and I am told it should be removed?  I did some research and found that you could have treatment for gallstones in the United States that would break them up with sonic waves so that they could easily pass.  Unfortunately here in Canada the only treatment is removal of the organ.  Makes me sad really to think that we can't figure out the cause and prevention, but rather rip it out or cover the symptoms with drugs.

In truth I feel there are other ways to deal with our health issues.  One of the biggest is to reduce our stress levels so our poor bodies have a fighting chance to give energy to healing and repair rather than in be in defence mode.  The other thing I am passionate about is educating people so that they can know that there are options out there and solutions for many serious degenerative diseases such as heart disease and diabetes.

So for now I am wondering why there is so much fear around alternative therapy for health and what it would take for people to try it and see that it actually feels amazingly awesome and that healing can be very therapeutic and spa like, it doesn't have to be scary with surgery and needles and dirty hospitals with scary equipment etc.

What are your thoughts?