The above quote sums it up nicely. I have been blessed to have the ability to be a good judge of character and through the years I have had to let go of many people in my life, simply because I didn't feel good being around them anymore. Friendships have a reason, season or lifetime. You can look up that quote and read it, it is very good! Everything has a purpose and we don't always know the bigger picture. All I know is that it is important to surround ourselves with the people who bring out the best in us, as that is what will make the world to a better place.
Staying with someone who is abusive is certainly not helping you, unless of course you are able to hold your own, in the midst of it. But remember too that there could be something about yourself that is bringing out something in them that is an insecurity. If they are unwilling to face it and deal with it so that they can evolve or change, it may be time to move on.
Relationships are what feed and nurture your soul. It is important to choose the people who are nurturing it, not poisoning it. Always remember that!
There is no right or wrong here, good or bad, we are not to judge. All we can do is choose what is right for us. Self Care. Life is an experience and you are the creator of that experience, simply by making choices, so do what works for you and take care of yourself. If it doesn't feel right or good, then that is communication from your inner being guiding you to something better. Listen to it, it is there for a reason.
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